Wednesday, October 30, 2013

{GETTING PERSONAL} THOUGHTS ON FRIENDSHIP

It kind of makes me sad when Google+ pushes the "People You May Know" updates to me and they're right. I do know them. At one point I knew them really well - we'd been to each other's houses, celebrated personal victories and commiserated over defeats, and vice versa. If pressed, I would have said that we were really friends and not just reacting to the fact that we worked in the same office. Unfortunately it became painfully clear to me that feeling was one-sided. It's kind of why I've put less emphasis on work relationships. I had to learn the hard way that sometimes work friendships - however great they might be at the time - have very rarely translated to real, strong friendships outside of the office.

Speaking of Google+ - I went and got myself a fancy vanity URL: https://plus.google.com/+BeckyCaudill.

Not sure why this is important, but they seem to think it is and they were handing them out so there you go.

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I find that the work friendships I formed early on my career have lasted, but as I've gotten older and moved forward in my career I feel less and less like socializing with work people. I no longer feel like I have to be friends with my colleagues, and am more likely to spend my lunch running errands by myself than eating/chatting with friends!
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I have two friends from my first job in San Francisco that I still see - every quarter we get together for dinner with an event we called Girls Gone Mild. The funny thing is, this is not the two ladies who I thought I would have created lasting bonds with way back when because while we got along incredibly well, we weren't extremely close at work. Funny how that works out. It's been years since we've worked together and we have what I'd definitely call a great, lasting friendship.

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